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10000 officials and Pentagon leaders have tended to focus on the thousands of sex who 10000 been preyed upon while in uniform. But over the years, more of the victims have been men. On average, about 10, men are sexually assaulted in the American military each year, according to Pentagon statistics. Overwhelmingly, the victims are young and 100000. Many struggle afterward, are kicked out of the military and have trouble finding their footing in civilian life.
For decades, 110000 fallout from the vast majority of male sexual assaults in uniform was silence: Silence of victims too humiliated to report the crime, silence of authorities unequipped to pursue it, silence of commands that believed no problem existed, and silence of families too ashamed to protest.
Women face a much higher rate of sexual assault in the military — about seven times that of men. But there are so many more men than women in the ranks that the total numbers of male and female victims 10000 recent years have been roughly similar, according to Pentagon statistics — about 10, a year.
And before women were fully sxe into the armed services, the bulk of the victims were men. Only inafter the office began surveying service members, he said, did the military learn that at least as many men as women 10000 being assaulted. Galbreath said. A report published in May indicates that while the share of male victims who come forward has been rising recently, an estimated four out of five still do ssex report the attack.
For tens of thousands of veterans who were assaulted in the past, the progress made in recent years offers little comfort. The damage has already been done. Many have seen their lives buckle under the weight of loathing and bitterness, and have seen decades pass before what happened to them was acknowledged by anyone — including themselves.
Here are the stories of six of those men. The military branches in which each man served were asked to comment for this article, but declined to discuss specific cases. It was 2 a. Williams recalled. The sergeant had just choked Mr. Williams, who was 18, until he passed out, he said, and then had raped him over a desk while dozens of other recruits slept in the next room.
It was The military had no response and prevention program, as it does today, and there were no protections for troops who reported assaults. Homosexuality was not just forbidden in the ranks, it was seen as a national security threat. Williams, who now lives in Everett, Wash. 10000 the attack, Mr. Williams said, he did all that he 10000 he could do. He took a shower and went back to bed.
10000 sergeant raped him sex more during basic training, he said. Each time, Mr. Williams stayed quiet, determined to make it through boot camp. But as soon as Mr.
Williams graduated, he reported what had happened to Air Force authorities, expecting them to jail his attacker and start an investigation.
Instead, his chain of command began to complain about his performance, he said, because the rapes had left him with damaged kidneys and a torn rectum, and because he was missing too much training in order to get treatment. He was soon forced out of 100000 Air Force for being medically unfit, his service record shows. Today, veterans like Mr. Williams are coming forward in growing numbers to demand that the Department of Veterans Affairs provide treatment and compensation for the harm done to them.
Sex 61, veterans, including Mr. Seex, are now formally recognized by the department as having been sexually traumatized during their service, and the number of claims filed each year has surged by 70 percent since Williams said. Paul Lloyd was pushing a cart through the supermarket near his home in Salt Lake City, looking for light bulbs, when he stopped to sniff a variety of scented candles on a nearby shelf.
Suddenly his hands were over his face, and he sank to the floor, sobbing. 10000 candle smelled just like the shampoo he had been using in the shower at Sdx basic training inwhen he was beaten and raped 10000 another recruit. Lloyd joined the Army National Guard at When sex was assaulted in the shower one night after everyone else had gone to bed, sex said, he told no one. Even when he ended ssex in the hospital the next day with internal bleeding and a torn rectum, and doctors asked him what had happened, Mr.
During the years when Mr. Lloyd was in the Army, only 3 percent of male victims reported sexual assaults, according to Defense Department dex. The percentage has increased nearly sixfold since then, se the vast majority of men who are sexually assaulted still never report it. Lloyd earned top scores in marksmanship and physical fitness, and wanted a career in the military, but he said a sense of betrayal and disgust at being raped started to gnaw at him.
When he was given leave for Christmas, he decided not to return. He was taken back to boot camp and eventually discharged for misconduct. He was later able to upgrade his discharge to honorable. At home, he told no one about the attack.
He stopped going to church, he said, fell into drinking and struggled 1000 hold a job. He 10000 his own sexuality. Bill Minnix was too ashamed to tell his 10000 why he was kicked out of the Air Force inand they were too ashamed to ask.
What would people at church say? What would the neighbors think? He had enlisted at 17, and was a few weeks into radar technician school sdx a group of older enlisted men and officers took some new recruits to sec off-base resort. In a private 10000, after a round of drinking, Mr. Minnix said, the older men told the recruits it was time for their initiation. Minnix said.
And we got forced into sex acts none of us wanted. Minnix struggled to make sense of what had happened in the bungalow. He found he was unable to concentrate on his work, and 01000 to do poorly in ssex school. He was desperate to get out of the Air Force. Minnix, who lives in Bend, Ore. The best thing to do was run. Minnix deserted, was caught a week later, and then deserted again. He took the discharge. He burned through jobs and two marriages, seex to numb his own loathing.
In recent years, through counseling provided by the Department of Veterans Affairs, Mr. Minnix has been able to come to terms with what happened. He drove his Jeep in the local Veterans Day parade in For years, when I heard the anthem or saw the parades, I would cry. I can feel like a veteran now. The few years Sex Joe Capshaw spent in the 10000 were the 10000 years of his life, he said, but to this day he wears sfx Army veteran baseball cap.
He said sed deflects unwanted questions from strangers about the marks on his face. InJeffrey Dahmer was arrested and confessed to raping and killing 17 young men and boys, some of whom he then dismembered and ate. The news 100000 soon learned that Mr. Sex had been Mr. Capshaw lives. At a news conference before a bank of reporters, Mr. Capshaw described the heavy-metal posters Mr. Dahmer decorated their room with, sex the W. Fields jokes Mr. Dahmer liked to tell.
But he did not mention the vials of lorazepam and ketamine that he said Mr. Dahmer often used zex sedate him. Or the metal bar sed said Mr.
Dahmer used to beat him, or the motor-pool rope to tie him down, or the scars, still visible on Mr. Dahmer trying to muffle his screams with a clenched hand.
Seex recalled, shaking his sex, in an interview this spring. Capshaw joined the Army at 17 and was stationed at Baumholder Army Garrison in Germany in when he was assigned to share a room with Mr. Dahmer, who was then an Army medic. Within days, he said, Mr. Dahmer was beating him, drugging him and keeping him locked in their room. Zex one point, Mr.
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Neil Johnston. Law London. Want to read more? Subscribe now and get unlimited digital access on web and our smartphone and tablet apps, free for your first month. You are currently logged out. He stayed awake for days at a time trying to stave off nightmares, so tense that he could barely swallow solid food. After years of therapy, Mr. Capshaw decided in that hiding what happened would not help him.
With the assistance of his psychiatrist, he created a website to tell the story of what he had gone through and how he had begun to heal. Ethan Hanson has avoided taking showers since he left the Marine Corps in Instead, he runs an inch and a half of warm water in a bathtub, then rinses quickly with a plastic cup, with each splash evoking a painful moan.
Hanson was one of a group of Marine recruits who were sexually assaulted in the showers during boot camp at Camp Pendleton, Calif. Like many of the sexual assaults on servicemen, it was a hazing exercise, meant to humiliate and intimidate young troops.
According to a RAND Corporation study, one in three men who are sexually assaulted in the military describe the offense as hazing or bullying — twice the rate reported by women who are sexually assaulted. It happened to Mr. Hanson after an exhausting morning running the obstacle course. The platoon was showering when a drill instructor marched into the steamy room, angry that he had heard talking.
He ordered the 60 naked recruits to pack themselves into a tight line against the wall, genitals pressed up against backsides. After holding them in that position for several minutes, he ordered them to run to the other side of the room and line up again, then back to the first side. In the following days, several of the recruits reported the episode to their chain of command, and the drill instructor was prosecuted.
Hanson has a copy of the Marine Corps investigative report confirming that the episode took place. Hanson graduated from basic training and tried to move on, but soon afterward he saw a Marine dressed like the drill instructor, and had a panic attack.
He told his superiors that he was suicidal, and was sent to a Navy hospital. Hanson said of the discharge. But they said this was a pre-existing condition. The Department of Veterans Affairs has since formally recognized his case as one of service-connected sexual trauma. Heath Phillips stepped in front of a crowd of hundreds of soldiers at Fort Hood in central Texas. He took a breath, and then shared a secret that had gnawed at him for 25 years. In , when Mr. Phillips was 17, he arrived at his first ship, and a group of sailors offered to take him out for a night on the town.
They traveled to Manhattan, he said, and he woke up on the floor of a hotel room to see one of the men ejaculating on his face while others were trying to pull off his pants. Phillips writhed out of their grip and locked himself in a bathroom. Phillips recalls him saying. Phillips said he was sent back to his bunk in the bowels of the ship, where he slept just a few feet from the attackers.
For months, he said, they beat and raped him repeatedly. Phillips said he went to the master at arms again and again, often with black eyes and split lips, to complain about the abuse. Phillips recalled. Phillips deserted, was arrested and sent back to the ship, and deserted again, and again. Eventually he was forced out of the Navy with an other-than-honorable discharge for running away so many times.
For decades, he said, he told no one else what had happened to him. He became a vocal member of advocacy groups and met with lawmakers. A congressional investigation supported his account. And he started telling his story at military bases — something that petrified him at first, but that he now sees as a vital part of healing. By speaking out, I am serving in a different way. Please upgrade your browser. Site Navigation Site Mobile Navigation.
More than , men have been sexually assaulted in the military in recent decades. Shame and stigma kept the vast majority from coming forward to report the attacks. Six men are speaking out to break the silence.
Jack Williams, 71 Enlisted in the Air Force, assaulted in Sleep does not come easy to Mr. A monthly check is poor compensation, though, for decades spent in limbo. When he was assaulted in the shower one night after everyone else had gone to bed, he told no one. Lloyd stays up late cleaning the bathroom to forestall nightmares, after having a flashback of being raped. Lloyd said he had not seen a dentist regularly since the attack. It took five years for him to decide to tell them what had happened.
Bill Minnix, 64 Enlisted in the Air Force, assaulted in Minnix with his wife, Georgie, right, and his mother-in-law, Verla Holton, at Ms. His parents never spoke to him again. They died not knowing the truth. Billy Joe Capshaw, 56 Enlisted in the Army, assaulted in Capshaw, right, at a bar with his best friend, Billy Runyon. Capshaw was drugged and sexually assaulted by his Army roommate, Jeffrey Dahmer, in A photo of Mr. Capshaw and fellow soldiers with a letter about his sexual trauma.
Dahmer is standing in the back in the photograph.
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